I visited Kay which was pretty mundane. I found her awake in bed but got her up and we went to our favorite spot for truffles and graham cracker. Shortly after we went back to her room and I was so tired I lay down beside her and got into a comfortable position holding her head on my shoulder until it was time to go. Frequently in the evening after dinner I am so tired I have to go to bed and cant write this post until the next day. So I fudge and rest at her place. On the way back there was an accordian player entertaining with old songs. He was so good, if I had know he was there I would have brought her down and we could have listened together. I talked to the VA guy today to see if there was anything in their programs that might help me in my goal of seeing Kay more frequently. All I got was the run around to my questions if there was anything that would help me accomplish my goal.
Cascade is going to start bringing Kay here to Active Day activities so I will be able to see her a couple times a week here when they bring her. The other days I go to see her. That's good news.
I'm wondering if working on making these videos of how she was then is a good thing. I have to keep comparing her then to now and that does not make me feel good. It makes me feel sad.
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