The Senior Observer

 We went to Tacoma today and we made arrangements to sign Kay in for care. Speed is of the essence because my eyes are going so fast if I delayed I may be blind before we got her in a place that was good for her.  They specialize in people with memory problems.   They also have a place a few miles away that that takes assisted living people.  I hope to get in there and use their bus to see Kay or Access transportation to do a lot of visiting to make up for not living with her. Things are moving fast and Kay and I will be experiencing radical changes in our lives.  I dreaded doing this but after the visit today maybe I wont be so bad.  We will know next Thursday.  No matter what, it will be a radical change. This is probably good for everyone.  Just remember you all.  You will be headed here sooner or later.  So be kind to the old people because you will also need kindness.